The hardest truth is that not all relationships will make it to happily ever after. It’s painful, but you have to protect yourself and recognize the signs ahead of time so you’re prepared for what’s to come.
As matchmakers, we know that not all relationships will last. No matter how much you try or how much you want your current relationship to go on forever, chances are it might end in a breakup, especially if you already have that nagging feeling deep inside.
There is absolutely nothing worse than being hit with a blindsided breakup. Yes, it will hurt to know that he’ll soon be gone from your life, but as with anything in life, it’s best to be prepared. We know how heartbreaking it can be to see your boyfriend go, but it’s better to realize it now so you can be prepared and soften the blow. If you suspect your boyfriend is falling out of love and getting to ready to make an exit, read on and find out of your intuition is right.
Today, New Jersey Singles reviews five warning signs he’s about to break up with you. Accept it and move on with dignity so you can eventually find the one you’re meant to be with for good.
1. Something Doesn’t Feel Right
Ever have that weird feeling that something isn’t right but you just can’t put your finger on it? Yes, when your intuition tells you something, you need to pay attention to it. Never doubt it!
Find the perfect time to talk to him about what’s going on. Let him know that you want him to be straight forward about what’s going on between you and tell him you deserve to know the truth if something’s not quite right. If he’s not willing to sit down and talk about it, he’s not the right guy for you.
2. He Doesn’t Make Efforts Anymore
Maybe he doesn’t make efforts for you, but he is definitely making efforts for someone else. When he spends time with you, he wears his raggedy clothes and doesn’t bother to impress you. However, you’re noticing that every time he leaves the house, he’s going out of his way to look like a GQ model.
If he has to be all done up every time he walks out of the house, ask to join him next time. If he gives you a lame excuse as to why you can’t go along, then you know something is up. If he’s stepping out on you and the relationship, you already know what you need to do. Don’t wait for him to break your heart; instead, it’s time for you to do the dumping.
3. He’s No Longer Romantic
He used to take you out on weekly date nights and occasionally showed up to your work with a bouquet of roses or to take you out for lunch. You recently realized that you haven’t been out on a date in months, and he hasn’t stopped by your work in a long time either. Something is telling you he’s lost interest. His romance for you has gone out the window.
If this is happening in your relationship, he might be distancing himself and getting ready to break up with you soon. You need to talk to him and get to the bottom of why he’s stopped putting in efforts to romance you. Even if he’s not getting ready to break up with you, this is still an issue you need to talk about and fix if you want your relationship to work.
4. He’s Been Picking a Lot of Fights with You Lately
Whether it’s something petty or big, he’s always starting fights with you. You used to be able to talk things out like a mature couple, but your arguing is now out of control and disrespectful.
He used to find a way to sort things out in a calm manner, but now he escalates them, calls you names, and blames you for everything. If he’s constantly picking fights over nothing and belittling you in arguments, this is a surefire sign he’s about to leave you. He could be waiting for you to do the dumping so he doesn’t have to be the one to hurt you.
5. Communication Has Faded Away
He used to text message you many times throughout the day and call to check up on you every now and then. Now, the calls and texts have become few and far between. He doesn’t care to text you with a good morning text or call you after work to make plans. Come to think of it, he doesn’t even post on your social media accounts anymore. And when you do talk to him, he doesn’t tell you anything about his day or ask about yours. If your boyfriend’s communication is lacking lately, then he’s distancing himself from you.
If any of these signs are evident in your relationship, don’t turn a blind eye to them. Don’t let him treat you with disrespect because you deserve someone better. So shine bright and kiss him goodbye. It’s time to date the guy you deserve. It’s time to let one of our experienced matchmakers here at New Jersey Singles introduce you to the man of your dreams!
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