While movies and TV shows will have you believing otherwise, you’re never going to find love at the local bars and clubs. You probably already know you shouldn’t be searching for love at the bars and clubs, but many people do this every weekend. Many singles in New Jersey head out the clubs every weekend hoping to catch feelings for a random stranger. Instead, they wake up with a raging hangover the next morning.
Sure, there are plenty of attractive singles at the bars and clubs, but how many of them are looking for a serious relationship? Not many.
Don’t get us wrong, the bars and clubs are fun for dancing and having a few drinks with friends. But no one ever thinks to themselves “Yep, the man/woman of my dreams is somewhere around here.” It just doesn’t happen.
Today, New Jersey Singles reviews why you’ll never find love at the local bars and clubs.
1. The bars/clubs scene doesn’t nurture good relationships.
Have you ever tried having a conversation at the local bar or club on a busy Saturday night? It’s nearly impossible. Words are mumbled and hard to hear, and instead of figuring out whether someone is worth talking to, you’re simply trying to hear what they’re saying. Only if bars and clubs had subtitles, right?
2. Alcohol makes people look better.
You know exactly what we’re talking about here. Get a few tequila shots in you and you start to think everyone at the bar looks like a model. Alcohol makes everything seem better: life situations, outlooks, and the people you see at the bar. You can’t have a relationship when you’re both intoxicated from those tequila shots. It just won’t work. If you want to meet quality singles, then try a coffee shop instead. The people you talk to at a coffee shop will be alive and alert instead of sloppy and slurring their words like at the bar.
3. Singles have one thing on their mind.
We hate to sound like your mother here, but at the end of the day there’s only one thing singles at the bars/clubs are really interested in. No, it’s not a relationship. They want to take you home at the end of the night. Men especially go to the clubs to find good looking women who are drunk so they can take them home. If he was looking for his future wife, he wouldn’t be at the bar, believe us.
4. Most of the people at bars/clubs are creeps.
Even if somehow you’re at the bar/club sober, looking great, and able to talk over the loud music, there’s always that one creepy person. Yes, that creepy guy everyone knows about—the guy who approaches every woman at the club. While we’re sure there are plenty of nice guys at bars/clubs, the creeps are the ones lurking about and harassing every woman in the club. These guys ruin the whole night.
5. You have nothing in common.
Much like people you meet in college and quickly discover that the only thing you bond over is alcohol, the same thing happens at the local bars/clubs. Even if you do manage to find something in common, it’s hard to keep the conversation going over the loud music in the background. While clubs do manage to bring a lot of people together, it’s merely to have fun, not to start a relationship.
If you’re looking for love in New Jersey, stop wasting your time at the bars/clubs. You have a much better option at your disposal. You can outsource your romantic life to our professional matchmakers and let us do the hard part of scouting for you. This is not saying that no one has never met their love at the bar, but the chances are stacked against you. If meeting your significant other at the bar/club were easy, then everyone would be in a relationship right now.
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