A real man can be very difficult to snag in today’s modern dating world, so how can you know you’re dating one? New Jersey Singles is here to help you!
Newsflash: dating is hard. Especially when you are in the dreaded spin-cycle of dating immature men. But when you finally snap out of this phase and understand the benefits which come from dating a real man, nothing else will ever match it. Ever.
Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top signs you’ve snagged a real man.
- He knows how to apologize.
A man should be able to admit his wrongdoings and learn from the mistakes he makes along the way. When a man holds himself accountable for his own actions and apologizes to you for them, it shows you that he’s mature and can be in a relationship.
- He is consistent with you.
He calls you regularly, he responds to your text on time, he meets up when he says he will. He doesn’t disappear or wait for you to initiate date planning. He makes communication simple and easy… the way it should be.
- He is honest with you.
He doesn’t try to deceive you or hide the truth from you. He answers your questions even if they’re hard or deep, and he makes things clear to you instead of running away from confrontation or sending you mixed signals.
- He resolves conflict rather than point the finger.
Rather than pointing fingers during conflict, a real man knows how to constructively work with you to fix any issues for the sake of the relationship. There is no finger-pointing with a real man.
- He pursues his passions in life.
Rather than pursue you all the time, a real man shows passion for things outside of the relationship. Think of it his way: if he gets out of bed at 5 am it’s so he can go for a morning run. He is passionate about things, has friends, and a schedule that might not always revolve around you. He clearly is confident in where the relationship stands.
- He shows his softer side with you.
A man isn’t afraid to show his sensitive side. He is in control of his emotions and clearly expresses his feelings with you. He understands revealing such vulnerability speaks to his level of emotional intelligence.
Along the same lines, a real man is self-confident and accepts all of himself.
- His actions follow his words.
A man’s actions are a glimpse into his thoughts and are often a good judge of integrity. He will be there when he says he will. You can count on him for anything. There is nothing sexier and more attractive than a guy whose actions match his words. This guy is a keeper.
- He doesn’t get jealous.
A man knows that the green-eyed monster can destroy a relationship. He knows that jealousy exists, but he understands how to tame it.
- He has empathy for you.
Experiencing your entire range of feelings and your emotional state is commonplace for your man. He shows a knack for understanding your perspective and feelings, which takes your relationship to the next level.
- He acts on love.
A man lets you know where the relationships stands. He will never play mind games with you. Period.
So tell us, how does your guy measure up? Is he a real man? Is he worth your time and efforts? We sure hope so!
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