Are you looking for signs he loves you? Unsure where to start?
Unless you are some type of superhero on a movie or a psychic on TV, you are not a mind reader, are you? We didn’t think you were.
So if you can’t see what’s going on inside a guy’s head, then how will you know if he really loves you, especially if he doesn’t come out and tell you? It’s enough to make you want to beat your head against the wall, right?
Let us tell you one thing: guys aren’t always open how about they feel. Your man very well may love you, but he may be nervous about telling you. And you’re left wondering… and wondering.
But even if he isn’t ready to tell you how he feels, there will be signs he loves you. These signs will always be there if he feels that way about you.
Spoiler alert: the signs he loves you have nothing to do with buying you gifts or treating you like a princess.
Today, New Jersey Singles reviews three telltale signs he loves you.
- He wants you to speak your mind freely.
We personally believe you shouldn’t be with someone who’s not going to challenge you. Your partner should be willing to put you in your place if you’re saying things that are ridiculous, and he should be honest with you if you’re doing something wrong.
You should never be with a man who questions your behavior, who is afraid to disagree with you. You don’t want to be with a man who agrees with everything you say and lets you make bad choices. You want to be with someone who is going to give you their perspective on things, and who will give you constructive criticism when you need it.
- He shows it with his actions.
Don’t assume that because your man hasn’t said those magic words that he doesn’t love you. Some people use words of affirmation to actually say I love you to their partner. Note: this can also include other ways of affirming love, like giving you a compliment or being supportive of your goals and dreams.
But what if words of affirmation aren’t your man’s love language? He might not have said those words out loud, but maybe he does acts of service like doing the dishes or cleaning the house.
He might give you gifts, and that might be one of the signs that he loves you. Or he might give you a lot of physical affection or encourage spending quality time together. Each of these are different forms of communication, so keep an eye for that. Declarations of love don’t always have to come with words. If he puts energy into the relationship, whatever the channel, this means he loves you.
- He will treat you like a best friend.
Right now, we want you to think about how your best friend, past or present, treats you. Likely they trust you with everything, are loyal and supportive, and might poke a little fun at you.
There’s no better formula for a love partnership. You want a best friend to move forward with in life. You want someone who’s going to be there for you no matter what.
If your guy is your best friend, that’s a wonderful thing. Real romance involves a balance of trust, spending time together, and, yes, making fun of each other.
When you think about your guy, do you see him as your best friend? Does he make you happy, as well as frustrate you with his silly antics? Congratulations. He’s comfortable enough with you to be real, and that’s great. In fact, that’s one of the truest signs he really loves you.
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