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New Jersey Singles Reviews Dating Trends You Must Let Go

Posted on June 26, 2018 by Nicole

It’s understandable that with social progression comes the evolution of how we interact with people, but it’s surprising how much dating has changed in terms of empathy and good old-fashioned human compassion. Dating has been evolving since the dawn of man, but it seems as if the upward curve turned into a downward spiral once social media entered the picture.

So what are some of those dating trends that must go?

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the latest dating trends that must be let go of for good.

Least Amount of Real-World Interaction

The internet can be pretty useful for many different things, but it’s not to be the only form of communication. You can’t rely on emails or text messages to carry you through. You must be able to form a deeper connection through phone calls and real life interactions, such as holding hands.

Label Confusions

Either you want to put a label in the relationship too quickly or not fast enough. The best way to go about this is to talk to your partner like two mature individuals. No one has to wait if it’s the right time to ask where things are going, and no one gets mad when they don’t get the answer they desire.

The Fade-out

You go on a few dates with someone. You laugh over drinks, maybe see a few movies together, and have a bunch of stuff to talk about. You think this person has relationship potential and then you slowly start losing touch with them. Sound familiar? This dating is referred as the fade-out. Chances are you’ve done it before. Don’t do this to people. Be straightforward and tell them you don’t want to see them again.

Always Searching for Something Better

Thanks to the multitude of dating apps and online dating sites, people can go on many dates and always think that there’s something better around the corner. We understand that not everyone has chemistry. But if you have chemistry with someone and leave them to search for someone better, that’s not good. This is a dating trend you need to dump today.

Texting Too Much Before the Date

This is a big issue with dating apps and dating sites. You haven’t even met the person yet and you’re already texting them all day long. It’s tempting to do this since we’re so used to texting, but it can backfire and scare your date away. Keep it to a minimum and wait to get to know the person in real life.

Pretending to Be Fine

A strange by-product of people’s casualness is acting like they don’t care or that they don’t have any emotions. It may be 2018 and the generation is a lot different to previous ones, yet we’re still humans and we all have feelings. You need to allow yourself to feel what you’re feeling because it’s definitely normal. If you like someone and they reject you after one date, it’s okay to be upset.

Being Dishonest About Your Intentions

If you love the single life and go on a date anyways – with no intentions of having a serious relationship – you’re not being truthful with yourself or with the person you’re out on a date with. This goes for both genders and definitely happens a lot. Don’t date for the sake of dating.

Times have changed, and so has dating. If you want to be successful in your dating life, drop these bad dating trends today.

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New Jersey Singles Reviews the Best Relationship Goals

Posted on June 13, 2018 by Nicole

Everyone sets goals… And we usually forget about them, right? But it doesn’t have to be like that – not if you set the right kind of goals. If you set goals that are easy enough to achieve – goals that are worth achieving – then you and your partner can work towards those goals and improve your relationship at the same time. The problem with most people’s goals is that they set the bar too high and then fall off the wagon along the way. The best way to prevent this? Set goals that are easy to achieve.

Luckily, with relationship goals, there are many things you can do that are easy enough to accomplish. However, if you try to do them all in one go, it will feel overwhelming. So instead, do one or two things every month, then add another one and so forth.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the best relationship goals for couples to strengthen their relationship and make the love last.

Ditch the sarcastic remarks.

A sarcastic sense of humor is great and all. Using it to put your partner down, not so great. Sure, we all love to joke around with our partner and make fun of them when they burn the burgers on the grill just before the guest arrived, right? Or perhaps it’s tempting to poke a little fun at how appallingly bad they are at dancing. We get it, and that’s okay – once in a while. But remember what makes a relationship special. Do you remember? It’s that feeling that your partner loves you no matter what you do.

So the next time you’re at a party and everyone starts cracking jokes about their partner, try shifting the conversation to something else and leave your partner’s dignity intact.

Give them more compliments.

You shouldn’t just stop making sarcastic remarks or making fun of your partner, you also have to show them what you love about them and what you find attractive.

Here are few things to remember complimenting them on:

Their looks
Their body
Their personality
Their work ethics
Their talents

Often, in relationships, we assume that our partner knows how we feel about them. Well, that’s why we’re with them! Everyone needs to hear it every once in a while. And the more specific you get, complimenting them on all aspects of who they are, the better they are going to feel. They more secure they’re going to feel in the relationship and the more valued they’ll feel by you.

Do something new and exciting.

Whatever grows stagnant will eventually die. To feel happy and satisfied in your relationship, you need to do fun and exciting things in order for the relationship to grow.

To help you grow in your relationship, and as a person, it’s important to try new things together. Once a month, try doing something you’ve never done before. Like go wine or beer tasting, do a weekend gateway, try a new restaurant in town, or attend a dancing class. You can also do certain things that are long-term, such as learning Italian – and as a part of that, taking some Italian cooking classes together too. Get creative – there are all kinds of fun and exciting things you can do as a couple.

Create something together.

Whether you want to create handmade gifts for Christmas or set about the aforementioned Italian language class – ending with a trip to Italy that you can plan together – it doesn’t matter so much as long as you’re doing something together. There’s something magical about doing something new together. You will have a strong bond as you work together as team to create something new.

Have more date nights.

Yes, we know it’s a classic, but it’s essential to help your relationship grow. Once a week, you need to have date nights. Be it a dinner for two at a local restaurant, a stay at home spa night, a candlelit dinner under the stars, a hike or a picnic, that’s up to you. But you should do something where you can relax and enjoy quality time together.

So what are you waiting for? Sit down with your partner and start planning your new goals this summer. We know you’re going to love the fun and excitement it brings to your relationship – trust us!

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New Jersey Singles Reviews How to Make a Relationship Last

Posted on June 12, 2018 by Nicole

Everyone strives for that happily ever after type of relationship, but not many people ever achieve it. Is it only real in movies and books, or can real people have a happily ever after too?

The answer is yes.

In fairy tales and movies, the writer draws you in to the happily ever after by creating a long-lasting relationship with the two main characters. What he or she doesn’t show you, however, is that in order to get the happily ever after, you must invest a lot of time and efforts into the relationship to make it work.

Movies and books make it seem so simple: something bad happens, someone does something good, and they continue to live a happy life. But in real life, we all know it’s a little bit different.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews how to make a relationship last.

Have open communication.

There must be open communication between both partners if they want to make their relationship last. Far too often we get caught up in “I think,” or “I am guessing.” Take those out of the equation and just ask your partner. Don’t ever play the guessing game.

Have full honesty.

You must always be honest with your partner. You can achieve nothing by lying and keeping things hidden. So why not tell them the truth always? What do you have to lose?

Have trust.

This comes from honesty. If you are honest with them, they will trust you.

Have an understanding of each other.

We each need to understand where the other person is coming from. To do this, you must put yourself in your partner’s shoes and vice versa.

Have love for each other.

It is important to know what love is and how love affects the relationship as a whole. Love is not saying “I love you.” Love is proving to each other that you love each other through actions and not just by saying those words.

Care for each other.

Both partners need to care for each other and show one another that they will always be by each other’s side.

Learn from each other.

You must be willing to learn from each other. That is where true growth comes from in a relationship. You may never agree on everything, and that’s okay. But you need to appreciate that someone else has an opinion and that they are entitled to have it.

Help each other.

Only when we help each other do we grow. Helping your partner when they are in need will show your partner that you care for them. Also, you need to help them and expect nothing in return. Your reward will be your knowledge that you helped your partner when they needed it the most.

Take their breath away.

With all the things we have in our lives, it’s easy to lose touch with each other. You may find yourselves just going through the motions and nothing surprises you anymore. Find ways to change this – take extra effort to surprise your partner with something that will take their breath away. From a simple heartfelt gift to a romantic date night on the town, do things to keep the love and romance alive.

Be silly and have fun.

Silliness can be key behind knowing how to make a relationship last. Laugh and have fun together. Goof around and don’t be afraid to be silly around them. These fun times will make your relationship last. Even in the midst of a chaotic day, try to have fun. Always look at the brighter side of life.

You see, while relationships do require work and efforts from both partners, it’s not as hard as many people make it out to be. It’s really rather simple when you look at it. We wish you the best of luck in maintaining the love in your relationship.

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New Jersey Singles Reviews 3 Surefire Signs He Loves You

Posted on June 4, 2018 by Nicole

Are you looking for signs he loves you? Unsure where to start?

Unless you are some type of superhero on a movie or a psychic on TV, you are not a mind reader, are you? We didn’t think you were.

So if you can’t see what’s going on inside a guy’s head, then how will you know if he really loves you, especially if he doesn’t come out and tell you? It’s enough to make you want to beat your head against the wall, right?

Let us tell you one thing: guys aren’t always open how about they feel. Your man very well may love you, but he may be nervous about telling you. And you’re left wondering… and wondering.

But even if he isn’t ready to tell you how he feels, there will be signs he loves you. These signs will always be there if he feels that way about you.

Spoiler alert: the signs he loves you have nothing to do with buying you gifts or treating you like a princess.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews three telltale signs he loves you.

He wants you to speak your mind freely.

We personally believe you shouldn’t be with someone who’s not going to challenge you. Your partner should be willing to put you in your place if you’re saying things that are ridiculous, and he should be honest with you if you’re doing something wrong.

You should never be with a man who questions your behavior, who is afraid to disagree with you. You don’t want to be with a man who agrees with everything you say and lets you make bad choices. You want to be with someone who is going to give you their perspective on things, and who will give you constructive criticism when you need it.

He shows it with his actions.

Don’t assume that because your man hasn’t said those magic words that he doesn’t love you. Some people use words of affirmation to actually say I love you to their partner. Note: this can also include other ways of affirming love, like giving you a compliment or being supportive of your goals and dreams.

But what if words of affirmation aren’t your man’s love language? He might not have said those words out loud, but maybe he does acts of service like doing the dishes or cleaning the house.

He might give you gifts, and that might be one of the signs that he loves you. Or he might give you a lot of physical affection or encourage spending quality time together. Each of these are different forms of communication, so keep an eye for that. Declarations of love don’t always have to come with words. If he puts energy into the relationship, whatever the channel, this means he loves you.

He will treat you like a best friend.

Right now, we want you to think about how your best friend, past or present, treats you. Likely they trust you with everything, are loyal and supportive, and might poke a little fun at you.

There’s no better formula for a love partnership. You want a best friend to move forward with in life. You want someone who’s going to be there for you no matter what.

If your guy is your best friend, that’s a wonderful thing. Real romance involves a balance of trust, spending time together, and, yes, making fun of each other.

When you think about your guy, do you see him as your best friend? Does he make you happy, as well as frustrate you with his silly antics? Congratulations. He’s comfortable enough with you to be real, and that’s great. In fact, that’s one of the truest signs he really loves you.

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New Jersey Singles Reviews Signs Your Dating a Real Man

Posted on May 29, 2018 by Nicole

A real man can be very difficult to snag in today’s modern dating world, so how can you know you’re dating one? New Jersey Singles is here to help you!

Newsflash: dating is hard. Especially when you are in the dreaded spin-cycle of dating immature men. But when you finally snap out of this phase and understand the benefits which come from dating a real man, nothing else will ever match it. Ever.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top signs you’ve snagged a real man.

He knows how to apologize.

A man should be able to admit his wrongdoings and learn from the mistakes he makes along the way. When a man holds himself accountable for his own actions and apologizes to you for them, it shows you that he’s mature and can be in a relationship.

He is consistent with you.

He calls you regularly, he responds to your text on time, he meets up when he says he will. He doesn’t disappear or wait for you to initiate date planning. He makes communication simple and easy… the way it should be.

He is honest with you.

He doesn’t try to deceive you or hide the truth from you. He answers your questions even if they’re hard or deep, and he makes things clear to you instead of running away from confrontation or sending you mixed signals.

He resolves conflict rather than point the finger.

Rather than pointing fingers during conflict, a real man knows how to constructively work with you to fix any issues for the sake of the relationship. There is no finger-pointing with a real man.

He pursues his passions in life.

Rather than pursue you all the time, a real man shows passion for things outside of the relationship. Think of it his way: if he gets out of bed at 5 am it’s so he can go for a morning run. He is passionate about things, has friends, and a schedule that might not always revolve around you. He clearly is confident in where the relationship stands.

He shows his softer side with you.

A man isn’t afraid to show his sensitive side. He is in control of his emotions and clearly expresses his feelings with you. He understands revealing such vulnerability speaks to his level of emotional intelligence.

Along the same lines, a real man is self-confident and accepts all of himself.

His actions follow his words.

A man’s actions are a glimpse into his thoughts and are often a good judge of integrity. He will be there when he says he will. You can count on him for anything. There is nothing sexier and more attractive than a guy whose actions match his words. This guy is a keeper.

He doesn’t get jealous.

A man knows that the green-eyed monster can destroy a relationship. He knows that jealousy exists, but he understands how to tame it.

He has empathy for you.

Experiencing your entire range of feelings and your emotional state is commonplace for your man. He shows a knack for understanding your perspective and feelings, which takes your relationship to the next level.

He acts on love.

A man lets you know where the relationships stands. He will never play mind games with you. Period.

So tell us, how does your guy measure up? Is he a real man? Is he worth your time and efforts? We sure hope so!

If you’re struggling to find a quality man on your own, contact our New Jersey matchmakers today and let us introduce you to relationship-minded men in New Jersey who are fit to date and compatible with you. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews First Date Attire for Men

Posted on May 23, 2018 by Nicole

To some men, fashion is very important. Looking good comes as second nature. And these guys usually have no problem getting women.

But there are some men who don’t know how to dress, and because of that, they don’t have much luck with women. They probably never had someone around them who was always looking sharp, or they just don’t know how to dress for their body type. Whatever the reason, they have no sense of style.

What should you wear on a first date to impress a woman?

Now, some women say they don’t care what a man wears. However, we all know that is not true. When women see a man, they are scanning him from head to toe. Looking at his shoes, his hair, if he has stains on his clothes, etc.

These things show you a lot about a person. So, if a guy goes on a first date looking like he’s wearing pajamas, well, odds are that he won’t be getting a second date.

You need to care about your appearance if you want to be successful in dating, so leave those stained shirts and raggedy jeans at home.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews what men need to wear on a first date in order to be successful.

Figure out what kind of date you’re going on.

Is this a casual date or are you taking her to an upscale restaurant? You need to dress appropriately for the date. Of course, if you’re having a picnic outside, you don’t want to want to wear a blazer and slacks.

But that being said, you don’t want to look like you are wearing gym clothes either. So, look at the type of date you’re going on. Then, pick an outfit for the occasion.

Wear nice shoes.

This may sound ridiculous, but it’s true. The shoes are everything. Trust us. Your shoes say everything about who you are as a person. They tell women about your personality. Will they look at your shoes? You better believe it.

You don’t need to wear $500 dollar shoes, but you need to make sure your shoes are nice and clean. If they look like they’ve been run over by a lawn mower, perhaps invest in a nice pair of shoes.

Simple is always better.

Keep your outfit simple. Of course, it depends on where you’re going, as well as the season. However, needless to say, you want to keep things simple. Jeans, slacks, a nice sweater, long sleeve shirts, or a plain t-shirt. Keep the colors simple too, and you’re good to go.

Go easy on the cologne.

Yes, you love this cologne, but how do you know your date will? Or better yet, does she have allergies to certain perfumes? That would be a great disaster for a first date. For sure, spritz yourself with some cologne and use some aftershave, but don’t go overboard.

Be hygienic.

The last thing you want is the girl to start wondering about your personal hygiene. That isn’t a good sign when a woman questions your cleanliness. Your personal hygiene shouldn’t even be a thought in her mind when she is on a date with you. So, make sure you’re showered, shaved, and that your hair is styled. It takes twenty minutes, literally, but it will make a huge difference in her opinion of you.

Don’t go overboard with the accessories.

Yeah, you can wear a watch, but let’s not look like a Christmas tree. Keep the watches, gold chains, rings, and bracelets to a minimum. There’s nothing wrong with hearing one or two accessories, but don’t go overboard with the bling. You know those guys don’t do very well in the dating scene. Make sure your accessories match your clothing and your style.

You see, it really is that easy to dress to impress. Put these six style tips to good use on your upcoming date and watch how confident and at ease you truly feel.

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New Jersey Singles Reviews How to Stand Up for Yourself

Posted on May 8, 2018 by Nicole

As you will learn, being a constant pushover harms not only you, but the relationship, as well. In these moments, the best way to deal with an overbearing or manipulative partner is by learning how to stand up for yourself.

How to Stand Up for Yourself in a Relationship

Standing up for yourself in a relationship can be hard, especially if you’re type of person who hates confrontation or is a people pleaser. You think it’s easier to just let everything slide rather than get into an argument and hurt your relationship.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews how to stand up for yourself in a relationship and stop being a pushover.

Learn your worth in the relationship.

The first thing in standing up to your partner is knowing your worth. Relationships are symbiotic and both partners depend on each other.

When one party forgets their worth in the relationship, it is easy to feel like they don’t have any say in what goes in the relationship. This can cause you to get bullied, coerced, or manipulated. Knowing your worth is key.

Learn your worth outside the relationship.

Knowing that you have worth outside of the relationship is essential, as well. If you are taken for granted, you can easily feel broken and destroyed from the relationship and be with people who show you no respect.

Some people assume there’s nothing else for them except the unhealthy relationship they are in right now, making it easy for their partner to get their way. Once you make your partner realize that you have worth, they will start to treat you better.

Learn to be assertive.

Assertiveness is positive and constructive while aggression is unhealthy. When standing up for yourself, always take the higher moral stance that moves you in the right direction. Pay special attention to choosing words that will not hurt your partner but rather get the problem solved.

An assertive person holds their own in conversation and stays firms to their beliefs.

Stop being afraid of silences.

There are some people who prefer using the silent treatment to hurt their partner. Don’t be intimidated by this.

If your partner constantly withdraws their affection and gives you the silent treatment, point out that they are being manipulative. This way, they realize that using the silent treatment on you will not work. This will force them to enter into a mature discussion with you.

Learn to say no to them.

If you disapprove of something your partner is doing, don’t be afraid to say no and own that answer. Being a yes man type of partner in a relationship ultimately causes undue emotional distress and feelings of oppression. Learn how to say no to them if you strongly disagree. No matter if it angers your partner or not, you need to stand up for yourself.

Learn to be diplomatic all the time.

Standing up for yourself doesn’t mean you take the role of being overbearing or manipulative. Always try to be diplomatic and take the higher ground. Practice fairness and diplomacy, especially when talking about something where you both have different opinions.

Consider your partner’s point of view and be empathetic towards their feelings, especially during an argument. This way, they will respect you and see you as an equal.

If you’ve yet to find a quality partner on your own, maybe it’s time you let the experts take over. If you’re single and want to meet someone who treats you with respect, contact our New Jersey Singles matchmakers today. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with New Jersey Singles today!

New Jersey Singles Reviews the Biggest Struggles for Singles

Posted on April 29, 2018 by Nicole

Dating these days is very different than what it used to be. The internet has made meeting people a lot easier, but it’s also made actually finding true love very challenging. Most millennials have heard stories from their parents and grandparents about how they used to date back in the day. You would meet a nice guy through friends or co-workers, at church, or in class, and you’d fall in love with them and get married.

That was about it. People used to get married a lot younger back in the day. Now people don’t even want to get married.

Online dating has been around for many years, but the real shift in how we date happened the day Tinder came into the picture. Suddenly, dating became a minefield of people just wanting to hook up with everyone. You see, it isn’t easy to find love these days.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the struggles many millennials face when dating in New Jersey.

The Ever-So-Popular Netflix & Chill Dates

This phrase symbolizes nothing but hooking up. If you Google this phrase, that’s exactly what you are going to find. Any social media fluent millennial knows that if someone asks you to come over for a “Netflix & chill date” that means they only want to hook up. But what if you just want to have a perfectly innocent, fully clothed movie marathon? You’ll have to make it clear beforehand or risk your viewing partner making a move right when you’re about to reach for pop-corn.

Casual Dating

A lot of millennials have little interest in being in a committed relationship and dealing with everything that comes along with that. And many don’t want to be celibate either. Casual dating has become the norm in today’s modern dating scene, for both men and women. Now that sex is pretty much on the table from the first date onward, it can be hard to tell if someone is interested in getting to know you, or if they just want to take you to the bedroom and have fun.

Constantly Wondering What Else Is Out There

The thing with Tinder and other dating apps is that you’re scrolling and swiping through an endless sea of aces and no one ever seems to be good enough for you. If you say no to this person, there’s another right behind them. It’s easy to find plenty of people to go on dates with, thanks to the popular dating apps.

But actually settling in a committed relationship, that’s another story. Millennials are a generation of people who are never happy with what they have and are always looking for something more, something better. How do we know we wouldn’t find someone better if we just swiped a few more times?

Anyone Can Say Anything from Behind a Screen

Internet trolls are everywhere online, including dating sites and dating apps. They lurk around just to say the most outrageously offensive things a person has ever heard in their life. They have no interest in getting to know you or even going on a date with you – they just want to have fun and take you to the bedroom.

There are also plenty of shallow people online, who will call you names like fat, short or ugly. Would people say this kinds of things to someone they just met in person? Probably not, but in the online world they can. Hiding behind a screen makes them brave enough to lash out.

As matchmakers with nearly 30 years in the business of love, we’ve seen many changes in the NJ dating scene. We’ve learned to change with those changes to help our clients avoid the modern dating challenges presented today. If you are tired of all the struggles you face in the New Jersey dating scene, contact our matchmakers today and let us help you find true love the right way. The person-to-person, face-to-face way.

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New Jersey Singles Reviews Signs You’re Dating A Gold Digger

Posted on April 17, 2018 by Nicole

A gold digger will be more in love with your bank account than with you. If you suspect your new love interest is only dating you for your money, we are going to help you figure it out – once and for all.

Below, you’ll discover traits that scream they’re a 24-carat gold digger. Learn to spot the signs so it never happens to you again.

Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the undeniable warning signs you’re dating a gold digger.

1 They want to know more about your financial status.

A person who’s only interested in money will want to know more about your financial status. They want to know about your job, what position you hold, and how much money you bring home every month. And, mind you, it is not just for general knowledge.

If your new love interest keeps asking you questions that require revealing personal information about your financial status, beware, because this is a major red flag you’re dating a gold digger. It’s a clear sign they’re not really interested in you, just how much money you have. By gaining inside knowledge about your financial status, they can start making calculations how much benefit they stand to gain from you.

They want expensive gifts from upscale stores.

You may believe the best gifts are the ones that come from the heart. But your new love interest doesn’t agree with that. Gifts with sentimental value are of no use to them. They only want expensive gifts from upscale stores. Be it an anniversary gift, a birthday gift, or even a plain apologetic gift, the most important criterion here is that the gift is EXPENSIVE. Some gold diggers are also good at throwing tantrums if they don’t get it their way, so take a look at how they act when you give them something of high value.

They become angry at the drop of a hat, pick fights for no reason at all, and won’t calm down until you say sorry with a gift. Apart from a heartfelt sorry, they expect an expensive gift as an apology.

Their friends are gold diggers.

A person is known by their friends. If your new love interest is always surrounded by people who appear to be gold diggers, their traits will most likely rub off on your new partner.

They never pay.

Your date does not know the meaning of splitting a bill. Shelling out money from their own bank account never happens. If you’re going for a meal with your partner and their friends, they may even make you pay for the whole bill.

Your partner expects you to pay for everything – and not only restaurant bills. He/she wants you to pay for the electric bill, gas, and even grocery bills. They treat you like nothing less than a walking-talking ATM and don’t even shy away from asking you to borrow money.

They’re high-maintenance.

Does your partner gets dressed up with the most expensive clothes and the shiniest jewelry? Does your girlfriend cake up her face with layers of layers of makeup? Does she refuse to wear anything but high-end brands?

A fashion-conscious partner who tries to show that they belong to the elitist class of society and goes to any length to maintain this image is definitely a gold digger. They also love to show off their goods, which are more likely enhanced with the most expensive outfits and accessories. But all that they flaunt has been paid for by someone like you.

If you are single and want to meet someone who is not after your money, someone who genuinely cares for you, contact our New Jersey matchmakers today and let us help you find the partner of your dreams. We do extensive screening to ensure all our clients are serious about dating and falling in love. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE, in-depth matchmaking consultation today.

New Jersey Singles Reviews Tips to Get to Know Yourself

Posted on April 11, 2018 by Nicole

Just because you’re you doesn’t mean you actually know yourself. As confusing as this sounds, its 100% true. You must actively figure out how to get to know yourself better in order to start enjoying life to the fullest.

The reason we don’t really know who we are is because we are too close to ourselves. Our perception of who we are is tainted by who we aspire to be. But the thing is, we’re not what we dream.

If you want to stop being blind to the person you really are, you’ll have to work at it. It’s not automatic, and sometimes it takes a lot of work and dedication. In order to learn how your mind works and the way you really see the world, you need to take a proactive approach and follow our expert tips. As professional matchmakers with nearly 30 years of experience in the New Jersey dating industry, we know the ins and outs of dating and finding the perfect partner—the one you’re truly compatible with. And you can’t do that unless you truly know yourself first. Otherwise, how would you know what you’re even looking for?

Today New Jersey Singles reviews how to get to know yourself as an individual so you can eventually find your perfect match.

Spend Some Time by Yourself

Most people don’t know that other people influence them. Spending so much time with one person can make you take on their personality traits. After a while, you might start acting like that person and won’t really know who you are anymore.

Spending some alone time will help you figure out what you really like to do in life. You’ll get to know yourself much better and grasp a firm understanding of what makes you tick.

Pursue Your Passions in Life

Think about all the things you enjoy doing in life. Now do more of it, and do it with passion. Our passions are at the core of who we are, and by following yours, you’ll discover even more things about yourself.

Think About What Angers You

Behind our anger is passion. This is almost always true, and if you think about the times you get angry, you’ll probably learn a thing or two that’s important to you.

Let Go of Toxic People

Who you truly are can be hidden by the people you spend time with. Toxic people bring you down and keep you from being who you truly are. Get rid them today. You should never allow room for toxic people in your life – especially when you are trying to figure out who you are yourself. These toxic attitudes and behaviors can quickly rub off on you.

Write in a Journal

Most of us don’t analyze our everyday lives. We don’t sit there and think of everything we did during the day. When you write in a journal, you get to see everything you did during the day, along with the decisions you made.

You don’t even have to write about anything extensive or complex. At the end of the day, simply read back through what you’ve written, and you’ll have a far better understanding of what makes you who you are as a person.

Surround Yourself with Good People

The more comfortable you are around people, the more of your true self will come out. When we feel judged by others, we feel uneasy.

In order to learn how to get to know yourself better, you can’t hide from who you really are. That means you need to be able to show that side of you, and that can only be done around people you love.

Work Out

Exercise and go walking around the neighborhood. Getting to know yourself is just as physical as it is mental and emotional. Your body can do wonderful things. Figure out what your limits are and how far you can push your body.

The process of learning how to get to know yourself can often take a long time. Some people go their entire lives and never truly get to know who they really are as a person. Get ahead of the game by following our expert matchmaking tips and get to know the person you really are.

If you’re struggling in the dating scene because you don’t know who you are or what you’re looking for, let our New Jersey Singles matchmaking experts help. We’ve helped many singles like yourself work through these dating obstacles and find that themselves, along with that special someone who complements their life. Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with our New Jersey matchmaking service today.

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